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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man (Conspiracy / Strange)

by Tinfoil Matt, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 03:28 (15 days ago)

:-facepalm


Definition for the uninitiated

transman
/╦łtranzman/
noun
a female-to-male transsexual.


"transgender man Lee Hurley bewailed his plight in the dating arena, criticizing women for "ghosting" him once they find out that he is transgender"

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In an opinion piece for Vice.com, transgender man Lee Hurley bewailed his plight in the dating arena, criticizing women for "ghosting" him once they find out that he is transgender (that is, a biological woman, too).

"Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man," Hurley lamented. "As a trans guy, the majority don't seem to know what to make of me, so they run away."

Perhaps the lack of success was due to the timing of the reveal? No, Hurley said he put that theory to the test and the results were clear.

"I've played around with the big reveal and I know the two are linked. It's hard not to see a connection when you arrange a second date, drop the T bomb and then she cancels in the next breath," he argued. "I'd be chatting with a woman, making her laugh and seemingly getting on well. Then I'd tell her and she'd vanish. Over and over and over. Before dates, during dates, after dates, it didn't matter. The result was almost always the same."

https://www.theblaze.com/transgender-man-upset-women-wont-date-him-dating-when-i-was-a-...

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Darkfalls, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 12:59 (14 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

"I've played around with the big reveal and I know the two are linked.

The "Big Reveal", there should be no big reveal, it should be on the dating bio that she is really a woman pretending to be a man. Stop wasting peoples time :-tothehand

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Danger Mouse, Staffordshire, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 14:46 (14 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

Most woman are going on a date to find a potential husband that will at some point provide them children. No wonder the women bail once they are told they're dating a biological female :-roll

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why do transgenders not understand this though?

by Darkfalls, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 15:12 (14 days ago) @ Danger Mouse
edited by Darkfalls, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 15:15

Most woman are going on a date to find a potential husband that will at some point provide them children. No wonder the women bail once they are told they're dating a biological female :-roll

Isn't it obvious that straight people want to date straight people with the end goal of creating their own children :-facepalm

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DERP

by Ashton, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 15:29 (14 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

Hurley lamented. "As a trans guy, the majority don't seem to know what to make of me, so they run away."


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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Sarge, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 15:33 (14 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

Because when you were a lesbian you put down lesbian on your dating page and you attracted lesbians. Now you are putting down man and attracting straight women who then find out during the date you were born a woman. It's not rocket science as to why you're finding it more difficult.

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Dobby, Lancashire, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 16:53 (14 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

This has got to be illegal on the part of the dating websites no? Full on false advertising. :-dunno

Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by HMS, Thursday, November 07, 2019, 20:08 (14 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

Are these women that are agreeing to a date blind? You can tell a female to male tranny a mile away :-lol

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Open Your Mind, Friday, November 08, 2019, 11:40 (13 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

This is the stupidity we get when we all pretend a man can become a woman and a woman can become a man :-roll

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by iLLogical, Friday, November 08, 2019, 12:32 (13 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

A straight woman is not going to want to be with a trans man. That's not being nasty or discriminatory, it's called freedom of choice and more importantly being straight.

If you're not telling these straight women that you're trans before the date that is being nasty and deceitful.

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Savage, Saturday, November 09, 2019, 00:42 (13 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt
edited by Savage, Saturday, November 09, 2019, 00:47

:-thumbsdown Transgenders should be upfront and tell people before going on the date.

Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Bobby, Saturday, November 09, 2019, 19:36 (12 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

If she/trans man is dating women then technically she is still a lesbian right?

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by Fusty, Monday, November 11, 2019, 19:18 (10 days ago) @ Bobby

If she/trans man is dating women then technically she is still a lesbian right?

To a normal thinking person :-lol Not in the eyes of the law though and the crazies :-crazy

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Internet dating when I was a lesbian was infinitely easier than how it is now as a trans man

by David Long, Monday, November 18, 2019, 14:43 (3 days ago) @ Tinfoil Matt

Some people are full on :-crazy

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